New Member Events

Words of Wisdom

A successful New Member Event is not measured by attendance.

It is measured by whether attendees leave feeling welcomed, comfortable, and more connected than when they arrived.

Small, consistent events often create stronger connections than large, elaborate ones.

What Success Looks Like

• New members feel welcomed and included
• Attendees make at least one new connection
• Members better understand how to engage with the Local Group
• New attendees return for future activities (if they choose)

Best Practices

• Make sure attendees know how to find the group
• Keep the atmosphere casual and welcoming
• Personally greet and introduce attendees
• Include both new and experienced members
• Focus on conversation rather than programming
• Hold events consistently

Common Pitfalls

• Overplanning or over-structuring the event
• Focusing on attendance numbers instead of connections
• Allowing attendees to remain isolated
• Treating the event as an information session
• Assuming one event format works for everyone

Purpose

Provide ideas for welcoming, low-pressure opportunities for new members to connect with others and begin engaging with the Local Group.

Why New Member Events Matter

New member events can:

• Reduce social barriers
• Encourage peer connections
• Normalize first-time attendance
• Provide a clear entry point into the group

What This Means in Practice

New member events work best when they:

• Are held regularly (monthly or quarterly)
• Include both new and experienced members
• Encourage introductions and connection
• Maintain a casual, welcoming atmosphere

Characteristics of Successful New Member Events

Successful New Member Events are typically:

• Easy to attend
• Casual and welcoming
• Conversation-focused
• Appropriate for first-time attendees
• Consistently offered over time

Common Formats

New Member Events can take many forms, including:

• Coffee meetups
• Meals
• Game nights
• Social gatherings
• Virtual meetups

The specific format is less important than creating opportunities for conversation and connection.

Virtual and In-Person Options

Both virtual and in-person New Member Events can be effective.

• In-person events often make informal conversation easier
• Virtual events may be more accessible for remote, homebound, or busy members

Many groups find value in offering both over time.

Creating a Positive First Event Experience

Before	During	After
Personally invite attendees Set expectations Reduce uncertainty	Greet attendees promptly Make introductions Encourage conversation	Even a brief follow-up reinforces inclusion. Send a follow-up message Thank attendees for coming Encourage future connection

Related

• Welcoming New Members

• Encouraging First Event Attendance
• How to find the Mensans!

• Making It Personal

• Responding to Members

• Local Group Events and Activities